This question pop in my mind last night, its all because of friendster , if you know one of the freindster feature is allow you to import all your hotmail contact to check which email is register under friendster, so that you can add your friend in friendster , i try it last night and saw my ex-gf friendster account.
i do have 2 ex gf, first one is break up in a very bad situation which i quite regret , second one is the one which i saw in friendster , we breakup, patch back and break up again but in peaceful way. hmmm for relationship sometime there is no right and wrong, but what make me thinking a lot is that, this gal is currently study in aus ..
we did keep in touch by msn after ( breakup ) few year later, she did ask my opinion for study in aus because i come back from aus, i can’t really recall the detail , but it seem like i think she is very troublesome and keep ignore her .. sigh , quite regret for what i did , it seem like i keep repeat the same thing and can’t remain a friendship with ex gf …
no i not thinking to patch back or what ( ahem my current relation quite ok ! ), is just that kind of feeling "even breakup still can be friend what.. " make me feel that shame on myself .
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Hi Knight!
Talking from experiences, both personal and friends. Though it is good to maintain the friendship, some girls (and guys) can get jealous. Depends on how your current girlfriend view it. Some dun care, some get jealous. And what if your ex-gf’s new bf is a jealous guy? And you end up with a black eye! Hahaha.
Well, it’s a moot point as my ex-(wife) slumped over in a chair dead about a year ago
I still maintain friendship with all my ex-gfs.
Good .. not everyone can do that ..
By the way, I just came accross your blog, because I have an issue with my current boyfriend. He maintains his relationship with his ex who broke his cherry about 10 years ago. This week she came from another city to visit our town and he went out with her and a couple of other male friends. They all got drunk and he drove her home at 2 am!!! I know that nothing happaned, but I am ready to break up! I don’t want a mental threesome in my life. What do you think about this?
Relationship is about trust …
hope that answer your doubt
^^